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30-35,
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writes:There is this shy girl, who happens to be the sister of one of my best friends. I’ve known the two of them (off and on) for the past nine years. Back then she wasn’t so shy. She would talk to me all the time and play games with me and her brother. However, in 2004, I stopped hanging out with her brother. It took me three years to finally reconnect with him. I now see her brother and her once a week.She used to talk to me years ago, however she is much shyer now and hardly talks to me at all (although, she talks to my parents’ like she’s known them her whole life). She only says a few words like “good night” or “yeah”. Take last Saturday for example: I tried to say something, such as “what book is that” to try to get an answer from her. Instead, her Mom answered for her. Another incident that night was when she told her brother something that she could’ve told the both of us. I chimed in saying that “I told him that already.” All she did was look left and right, almost with shifty eyes. The most I could get from her was a smile from her before she got off the couch and a “bye” as she was leaving. Before we said bye I said out loud “This is great weather”. She had her arms crossed and she responded by groaning. I guess I shouldn’t have said that.For some reason, I don’t think she likes me in any shape or form.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): Sounds wierd. Maybe you could ask her brother why she is treating you this way or if you've done anything to offend her.
Maybe it has something to do with why you stopped hanging out with him. If it happened abruptly, she might not feel she can trust you anymore. Or if you got in trouble or something along those lines, she might not feel comfortable with you anymore.
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 it might be that she is just not happy with how you have come back into their lives. something may have been going on in their family before you came back and now it has all stopped or started again because you are back.. Dont take it personally and ignore her for a little bit becasue she will then no how it feels wont she..As for her talking to your parents she will do because everyone is nice to the parents of someone that they know... you have to be.. hope that this helps a little bit :) x
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