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writes: WHY DOESNT MY BOYFRIEND FEEL ANYTHING DURING SEX?I have had sex with my boyfriend and my bf is above average in length and girth...I finish at the least 15-20 times before he even gets done. He has to masturbate to finish and i asked him why he takes so long.... He says that he cant really feel all that much pleasure. What can i do to give him pleasure? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Well, my bf and I are having the same problem. I don't understand it either. No other men that I have been with have complained that my vagina was too "loose". What's more, I've asked my current bf about this, and he said that my vagina was tight.-Thus confusing me even more. I am now beginning to suspect that he may be a gay man who is still in the closet.His family is really religious, and they are super conservative, so I'm thinking that he is just afraid to come out. He gets hard and stays hard when I give him bjs. He just can't stay hard during or before sex. He doesn't get hard when he sees me naked, either, or when I rub up against him. Sometimes he even has trouble staying hard during oral sex.He denies that this was a problem in his last relationship. I am trying hard to work this out, because he is super nice to me, and I am already in love with him. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Not necessarily your fault.
Your boyfriend probably masturbates too much which makes his private parts less sensitive. If he leaves it alone for about a week he should be more responsive.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (12 October 2006):
 Well not to be blunt but could his condom be too tight. My boyfriend Is ummm....larger than I would normally be inclined to take on.....and then some. (love conquers a lot) and he can not use regular condoms. They make larger ones and they work fine.
also....could it be he's beat off until there is little feeling left....if his weenie has a callous....LOL But seriously...even his underwear or tight jeans can cause the sensation to diminish....or any thing that is so loose it rubs him.
also if you are both young....he may just not really be comfortable enough to relax and enjoy things.
Girls think guys have this robot thing....always ready when you are...and that is just not so. talk openly...try different positions....help him masturbate and be very very happy that he's not a swirt in the dirt and never gets to the actual event without an early finish. which is a problem for many young guys who are on the opposite end of WAY TOOOOOOOO sensitive.
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