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age
41-50,
*ixy
writes:i have just come out of this really bad realationship where he made me feel rubbish about me so i got out. now i am seeing this younger man it started off fine but recently he tells me about all the women he has been with and snogged and when i am with him sometimes he looks at women ten times better looking than me, he tells me he loves me in fact he was the one to say that first and goes on about us moving in toghether so why does he feel the need to tell me about the girls he has had and he knows about the long term realationship i was in and i have not had that many relationships please help i am very confused Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Some men just cannot help themselves. They like to let us know just what they have had in the past, whether we want to hear it or not. Tell him you have heard enough and don't want to know anymore. You could look at it that he is being open and honest and isn't hidden stuff from you.
If I was you and he loves you then i wouldn't worry, but if he continues to ogle other women then i would ask tell him you are not keen on that. Be strong, bold and let him know how you feel. If something bothers you - tell him.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Some men just cannot help themselves. They like to let us know just what they have had in the past, whether we want to hear it or not. Tell him you have heard enough and don't want to know anymore. You could look at it that he is being open and honest and isn't hidden stuff from you.
If I was you and he loves you then i wouldn't worry, but if he continues to ogle other women then i would ask tell him you are not keen on that. Be strong, bold and let him know how you feel. If something bothers you - tell him.
Take care
xx
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reader, kraysie +, writes (21 March 2007):
how many sexual relationships have u had? men do kiss and tell and i think it explains why he tells you that. it strokes his ego that he has "accomplished" bedding a number of women...however, this does not mean he does not love you. while men boast of their "sexploits" and maybe sometimes inflate the actual number of their past sex mates, women on the other hand conceal theirs and sometimes even deflate the numbers.
dont let the past relationship affect this one, but keep your eyes open so you know if its going the way you dont want it. best of luck
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