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writes:So I posted not so long ago a question because my wife just doesn't ever have sex with me, she may maybe one every other month use to be once a month but anyway yah thats still an issue, but we've talked about it. We do have a 5 month old and stuff but that's not my question really, that's the main issue in a whole and I've already got it addressed and i know the situation. My question is how can she do this to me? Look ok so let me paint the picture without sounding too pornographic. I'm laying with my wife, her alarm went off at 4 usually means she has like a hour to wake up and then get ready and then head to work which is litteraly like 5min down the road. I have to work too today but I go in alot later than she does. So the alarm went off she is awake she isn't yawning she's alert, I pull her closer to me and we start to kiss, cuddle and get increasingly intimate [details redacted by moderator]. I reach down and she's obviously very wet. And then she grabs my hand pulls away, and says something like "dont forget to put the clothes in the dryer babe love you, get some sleep you have to get up soon".She then gets up gets her coffee, takes a shower has alot of time to kill then leaves for work and I am in here in this bed and fustrated isn't the word for it. I then go feed the baby go ahead and get ready for work early and not I'm laying here posting this question.....and the question is.....how can she do that and she think its ok?? Lol she was into it, why does she pull away? We're married? We love each other, why doesnt she want to have sex? I want her. Damn!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2013): It could be post partum depression? I remember not wanting sex for a while after having my kids. Thank bejesus that my desire came back. Anyway, you have to talk to her about this. In my humble opinion, I don't think it is fair to keep you wanting sex. I just feel that a woman has to keep her man satisfied so that he won't stray. See what she says when you bring it up. Maybe she is not comfortable with her body because of the baby? Happened to me. Good luck my love.
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reader, R1  +, writes (2 January 2013):
 Sounds like she has a lot on her mind, young child, work, house work. She probably can't concentrate on enjoying her time with you while she could be spending the time doing something else. Maybe she would like time to enjoy sex? She doesn't want to start enjoying herself only to have to leave and go to work. I'm not sure what the solution is but it sounds like you really need to pick your moment to try it on. Ideally time when you can lie in, no distractions, the usual!
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