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writes: Dear Cupid, My new man seems to lose his hard-on before sex or during. Is there something I am doing wrong - perhaps I am not turning him on enough? I have never experienced this with a guy before. he is only in his 20's also so not affected by age.What do you think I could do to hwlp keep him up??I don't want to say anything just yet, as I feel this may make it worse.x
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reader, TheActor +, writes (16 October 2006):
I've had this with an ex of mine, personally I think I just wasn't ready to have sex with her, so wasn't fully commited. Like they say the most important sex organ is the brain. Have a chat with him and make sure you're both fully ready for it and he doesn't have any doubts.
If this's not it, try finding a different position/style that will turn him on more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): Talk to him about it. It's most likely stress, or other things he's thinking about that are taking his mind away from what's going on. I think that Viagra should be a final solution. If it continues he should talk to a doctor, but don't jump to medicate the problem right away. That could freak him out too.
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (12 October 2006):
I dont think its you, he could be nervous which sometimes interferes, i know you said you dont think there could be anything wrong due to his age but maybe the doctor could prescribe viagra which could make his erection last longer.
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