Its hard to let him go even though I know he plays games

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this guy that I started talking to in the summer of 2014. Towards the end of the summer he had gotten upset with me and we stopped talking. Then him and I starred talking again when he sent me a text. This time when he came back into my life he was a little distant it wasn't the same. And it didn't really bother me because j had met someone else. I realized with the previous guy that he came into my life because he had no one else ( and him I never had sex) which again doesn't bother me. When me and this guy did talk he would always play games text me and then not text me back (this was last summer). He always did little things that my friends didn't like they never approved of him for me. Well, I went out to the bars downtown and ran into him I spoke and he made it seem like I was chasing him I was a little irritated with the disrespect. Although he did text me a few times afterwards. But he's a jerk he's made me cry before, so I let all a majority of my feelings go. A few weeks later I went out again and I saw him I was going to speak because he approached me and tapped me on the shoulder I'm very short like 5'1 and he's very tall and so is my friend that went along with me. She blocked me so I couldn't look at him or speak she literally jumped I front of me. He tried approaching me a total of five different times again he was completly ignored I felt bad and wanted to speak but my friend jumped in front of me so I couldn't speak to him. I felt bad I wanted to speak and have a quick convo but my friend said no all he is going to do is hurt you once again and she was right. It was just the moment that I realized he wanted me and I wanted him he gave me the saddest look ever when I didn't speak he was with his friends which made it worse. He did text me Sunday night asking why I completely ignored him and that he was confused he said we were cool and then he said well it's because I like you and you just ignored me. Again my friend said that I was his only option he is handsome. I know I need to let him go because I feel like he goes from girl to girl; he said he was looking for something serious but I doubt it from the way he acts. He hasn't text me since Sunday either he said he's going to be in the field for the next 15 days and no phones are allows but I've seen him on social media which makes me think he's just playing with me again, which sucks. It's just hard to let him go.

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