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*pendy
writes:i told my friend i would come for a sleep over.. but my cousins wife lost her baby:( so i had to go and see her.. it was very emotional when i went.. she lives 2hours away from me.. and the trains are not running so had to take the bus.so i told my best friend i cant come to the sleep over cos am very upset and is a long journey and i just wanna go home.. and we can always do it another day.she said she knew i wasn't gunna come and that shes meant to be my best friend she couldve cheered me up.i said please dont start and she deleted me off her blackberry messenger.what is up with this girl?? shes always throwing a tantrum.. and whenever i dont text her back or running late she rings me like 10 times and complains.. oh you should've told me you werent come blah blah..i cant even count how many times shes behaved like this.what should I do?? everyone thinks i should dump her..shes 20thnx..xx
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reader, hot101  +, writes (4 October 2010):
I think that if she is a TRUE friend she would be more understanding!! You have ur own life and issues that you will have to deal with and if she can not accept that then I dont think she should be a part of your life as she is just adding more stress to it and is not helping!! I would have a talk with her and tell her how you feel holding NOTHING back! if she can not accept that then I would cut all ties with her!
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reader, petina1 +, writes (4 October 2010):
 Unfortunately that's life. Some people are only concerned in doing their own thing. They don't think about what other people have in their lives and arent prepared to take time out to listen or digest. She sounds like a very selfish person to me and only wants things her way or not at all, that's why she isnt going to listen to anything or any excuse because its not suiting her and what she's up to.
My friend fell out with me over something the night before my wedding day and she would not listen to my excuse at all. I now just delete dead wood because true friends will understand you.
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