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Why does my ex say he still loves me when he doesn't want to be anything more than friends?

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Question - (29 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2010)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 30-35, *iri writes:

well its a pretty common situation

im in love with a my ex for more than a year now. We dated for about a month and a half earlier this year but he ended the relationship because we didnt see each other as often as we would like. This crushed me but i still manage to talk to him almost every night. Also since we broke up, we seem to go out a lot more and have gotten a lot closer. He tells me that he loves me and its always really amazing when we're out together...i can see it in his eyes that i mean something to him...but still doesnt want to be anything more than just close friends.

so my question is...do you think im silly for thinking we can still be together in the future?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010):

He likes you but I would give up on him in the romance department. He has told you be doesn't want more than a friendship now. You are clinging on to hope because you love him. Maybe try not to see him too often, give yourself a chance to get over him.By meeting up regularly you are never going to get him out of your system. It's hard but I think you have to finally accept it's a lost cause.

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (29 December 2010):

What he saying to you is that he loves you like a friend, but he not into you. He can't see spend his life with someone that he would long for another. The relationship you're hoping for will end in a brother/sister style. You seem couples like this b4. You need to pull away from him beause in the end you will be hurt when he start dating.

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