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writes:please help,i was very happily married for 21 years to a wonderful man.one day he came home from his work and told me he didnt love me.two weeks later he walked out on me and my 3 kids.its been nearly 2 years now and he still lives with his parents but he has a very young ugly grlfriend.she checks his emails that we send to each other,and she tweeted me calling me terrible names and threatened to come and slap me.my husband called my daughter and asked if she was taking my side and she said yes shes my mum.my husband has since emailed me and told me he will never come see his kids again.it was only last week he wanted to be friends with me and that the girlfriend never comes first.why does he do this to me and always takes her side.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 July 2010):
 It's probably a blessing if he doesn't see his kids. What a shitty role model. Get a good lawyer and get every penny of child support and alimony you can from the louse.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 July 2010):
Do you remember the day that he came home, said he didn't' love you and such? Well that said all you needed to know about his character. He does it, because he's a stupid man being led by his penis and not his brain. But he'll come to regret it. In the meantime, keep every email and tweet and all the things you're sent that are offensive. They'll make for good evidence. Then do the best you can with your children, and ensure you screw him for every single possibly penny that you can. I'm afraid he's just a pathetic, useless weasel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): I have never been married before, but if should answer you, it will be according to my little knowledge. aint an expert. this dude, or your ex husband just wants to see you suffer, and your kids. a real man does not behave like that. move on, make yourself more attractive, and more beautiful, trust me he will try his way back to you, but don't give him a chance, unless you're sure he really wants you back. other wise, shows him that you are over him, and that you can live without him, despite the 21 years together. that isn't the reward you should recieve. you deserve better.
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