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writes:hi my names rachel. 2 years ago i was diagnosed with on set psycosis this means i have voices in my head that tell me all different things,this year i stabbed myself and iv also hurt my boyfriend...i just want some to tell me why he stays with me after every thing iv put him thriugh(which is alot) and what can i do to tell him i love him so much and im very greatfull for everything he does for me....!please reply love rachel(please dont think im a pshyco) Reply to this Question
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reader, im_still_daddys_lil_girl  +, writes (23 July 2008):
take him on a romantic date, walking in the park, laying underneath the stars,anything. if it shows you have put a lot of thought into this date, he will know you are trying your hardest to let him know he's your man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Hi Rachel
He does love you, and to return it make sure you take your medications to help look after yourself. Show him lots of love. God bless you both x
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 hi sweetheart - i dont think your a psycho!! i think your a person who is sick but also very lucky because your surrounded by love which alot of ppl dont get. your boyfriend knows that the reason why you did this stuff is because your sick and you would never want to really hurt him. he obviously loves you very much and knows that you love him or else he wouldnt still be here!! as for letting him know, just tell him every day or as often as you can - even if its just in passing its nice for him to hear.
you just need to keep telling yourself that even though you are sick, you are luckier than most because at such a young age, you have found that thing that we all are searching for!!
i hope this helps, if you ever wanna talk im here hun, wish you all the luck in the world xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): if he stays with you then he must truly love you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 July 2008):
He's putting up with it because he knows it's not you doing these things, it's the illness.
It's like if you had a cold, a good boyfriend wouldn't leave you because he was sick of you being full of snot, because he knows it's just germs that are causing it.
It's the same with you, it's not you - it's the illness in your brain. (Or chemical imbalance or bad wiring or whatever causes voices.)
He loves you and is brilliant, stop worrying about why he's doing it and get on with enjoying the fact he is. Make him feel as loved as you do. Yes he has put up with a lot and yes you are lucky to have found such a great guy, but don't question it!
Enjoy the good things in your life! Hug him and kiss him and show him you love him with little things.
Good Luck!! xx
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