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*ayla20
writes:hi, i have a child from a previous relationship and am pregnant again with my new boyfriends baby. im noticing that the pregnancies are different and in some way are comparing the differences between this pregnancy and my last i dont mean to i mean i know all pregnancies are different but i just cant help it and my boyfriend doesnt like it he says its like im comparing him to my ex what do i do?am i in the wrong?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 Because he's not the father of the other child, and indirectly it's reminding him of that and the relationship you had prior to him. He needs to accept that you had a life before him, and with that life was the experience of being pregnant. He also need to put in his mind that you're not talking about your ex. you're only talking about the experience its self and how it differs from this one. I don't think you're in the wrong. I think your current boyfriend needs to work on his jealousy and realization that you carried a baby prior to being with him, and that's okay which it's also okay to share the experience.
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