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writes:Ok well me and my bf have been together about a year and 2 months or so .. but lately things have started to go wrong.. we've just been having STUPID arguments, i wont go into to details but they are petty. Latest one was he got annoyed with me cos im ill.Yes he actuallyy got annoyed cos im ill. And the annoying thing is, he said sorry for having a go at me but then just expected me to be happy, and then he got annoyed again when i still seemed a bit off with him, but i mean.. that was understandable why i felt like that right? And now hes gone off msn to go out with his friends [maaannn i hate those boys.] and so we wont speak till 2moro when i go round his house .. and its just gna be all awkawrd and like tense you know? I wish we could just be happy !! We are sooo good together, its like we're best friends and we normally just have a laugh and we get along so well .. So why does he have these stupid lil moments? Why does he ruin it over petty things?And do i take them too seriously? Should i have just been ok when he said sorry and just acted as normal? Help :(
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 January 2009):
This is what dating is all about. There are good times and bad times. You are hardly going to meet your perfect and emotionally mature man at 17!
You have to decide to either put up with the fact that he throws stroppy tantrums every now and then and enjoy the good times... Or you can get rid of him and not enjoy the good times but not have to put up with his childishness.
That's the choice and it's only you who can make it.
Good Luck!! xx
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