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writes:ladies please help me i'm a mess. Here it goes I was with a girl 4 about 2 years off and on not my doing totally hers. I believe i was great to her trying my heart out to make things work between us. Everybody in our circle would tell me how good i was to her and some went as far as saying they wish they meet a guy like me. I found later that when she left me those times she would be talking with other guys i guess when it didn't work out she would call me back and profess her love to me and i was sold because i loved her. This cycle went on for about a year. After one of our usallly fights we stopped talking and it was over we haven't spoken 4 a few months now and today i found out she had a boyfiend which just killed me. Why does it bother me so much ? why do i still love this girl who hurt me more then anything? I have other girls who want to hook up with me but i still can't get her out my mind why help? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (10 December 2007):
 Hi
How you are feeling is perfectly normal, at the end of the day when you truely love someone and they break your heart it can take many months or even longer to heal.
There is nothing wrong with you & eventually you will feel ready to move on and you will find another girl that can give you the love and respect that you deserve!!
Good luck with it all
Lu x
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