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writes:I had this guy come on to me and flirt a lot. I told him we could start off as friends and he wanted to see each other. I agreed and saw each other once. We were suppose to see each other again but he kept saying he was to busy and we only communicated thru text. Finally, after many months he started saying he wanted to have sex. I finally decided that i wanted a one time thing with him and made it really clear I was willing to go along with him. He still hasn't seen me but he responds to my texts. He also will text first. Did this guy ever find me attractive? Why play these games? Why is it so hard to stop talking to him?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 March 2009):
Sounds like he just wanted someone to flirt with and hasn't got the balls to go through with anything else.
This could be
a) because he's shy and just wanted a text buddy
or
b) because he's married!
Either way, I have a very short patience with men like this.
Life is too short and if they can't get it together then I move on. It's their loss.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (22 March 2009):
 That's just it, for him it is a "game". He offers you a game, and you agreed to play.
How to not play the game anymnore? Options: (1) Delete his number so you cannot contact him. (2) Change your own number so he cannot contact you. (3) If you communicate also with emails or online chats, delete all his emails. Also delete his email address, his chat ID, and block him from your email and IM access.
Why is it hard to talk to him? Well, some games can be so addictive because you like those games. You like his texts because I am guessing that they are charming, funny, sweet, sexy, etc etc. So you always look forward to these texts. BUT, he is NOT interested in YOU in the least bit. Not even when he could have sex with you with no strings attached.
Don't sell yourself short. You are not a game. You are a respectable human being with a lot of love to give. Give it to a man who respects you and who wants to be with you all the time!
Good luck!
Cat
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