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Why does he keep taking photos of guys at the gym?

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Question - (27 September 2005) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am 25 and my boyfriend is 28.

Recently he has been banned from the gym for taking photos of men getting dressed; so he went to another gym in the city and was banned for doing the same thing!

Now he's joined another gym in the locality, and I hope he isn't doing it this time!

I've tried to talk to him about this in a calm manner but he won't discuss it with me.

Away from the gym, he's a decent person; I don't understand why he does this though.

What should I do about my boyfriend and his semi-regular trips to the gym?

Thanks,

Katrina

xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

he sounds gay to me and my friends and their friends, and just about anyone else with common sense on this planet!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2005):

It's most likely a fetish that he has. He needs some help from a psychologist. That a smack from your hand. Take your pic.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2005):

I can't understand WHY he takes photos of men getting dressed - only men.

He's a loving and gentle person when he's not doing this, but I don't understand WHY he does this.

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A female reader, Delila +, writes (27 September 2005):

Hi Katrina,

What are you doing with this guy? He won't tell you why he is taking pictures of men getting dressed? Why do you trust him? I wouldn't be surprised if he was taking pictures of you that you didn't know about. He could be lifting up the bed clothes when you are asleep and taking pics of you. Maybe he is posting them on the internet. This is unacceptable behaviour, WEIRD. Sorry I'll just say that again W.E.I.R.D. I would not want to be seen with this man. Are you really desperate or something? I don't get it. I hate to sound so mean but I am hoping that I am ringing some alarm bells in that head of yours. Please don't get pregnant by this man.

Sorry

Delila

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2005):

Try tagging along with your boyfriend to the gym.

goodluck xx

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