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writes: does a leopard ever change its spots?ive realised since splitting up with my husband there seems to be a pattern with him.he had 2 businesses before i met him and just gave them up,he dumped his girlfriend of 5 years to go on holiday with his brother.dosent bother with his 2 children from previous realationships and just decided to walk out on me 4 months ago and gave me some silly excuse for doing so.people thought he was lovely until they got to know him as he let them down or turned on them verbally.why does he keep running away from things?did i not make him happy.will he always be the same?will he ever change?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Don't take it personally if he is irresponsible and can't stick at things. He would probably be the same with anyone.
Just get on with your life and if someone better turns up make sure you vet them properly first!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 April 2008):
Why should he change? People either forgive him, o he doesn't bother with them.
The fact he's abandoned children says the most.
Run away from him, he is not worth your time because you will constantly worried he's going to fly off the handle and leave you for his next girl.
Move on and pick someone who lives up to responsibilities like a man.
Good Luck!! xx
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