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writes:This guy I met a month ago. He's a flirt and since I met him he worked himself to be close to me looking for me and all. Once I thought he was really interested he backed off, so I wonder why? Well, searching in myspace I found his Girlfriend.I felt like used( Thank God I never did anything with him, he's GI) Well, happens that he said he's traveling to his place of station today so since I found out he has a GF, I didn't told him I know. Sarcastically said that he was going to visit his GF. He said he's going home, and I said "Oh to your almost wife". He said " I'm not married, you know and I'm not near to getting it now". Then, some guys at the airport joked him and said "So, are you going to the wedding?" and he just chuckled.Why can't he admit he has a GF, fiance, wife or whatever if I'm giving the hints I know so for him to not fool me?What bothers me the most is that his GF's myspace she says how much she loves him and how great she thinks he is. He appears like a loving fellow with her there, so I'm really pissed to feel like he's a big player not only to her but anyone!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 February 2009):
 I've just noticed that you are in your 30's not your early teens! Come on you must know better than to hang around!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (14 February 2009):
 He's a player. Maybe you should let his girlfriend know this. Then don't give him a chance to un-do his mess. And don't contact him anymore. He's a loser in my opinion.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 February 2009):
Why are you waiting for him to tell you?
What do you want him to do? Confess and cry?
The best way to show him you know he has a girlfriend and is playing you, is to say that you found his girlfriend and then cut him off all together.
All you've done so far is flirt with him and show him you may be ok with it. Why hang around a scum bag like that who cheats on a girl who loves him?
Good Luck!! xx
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