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writes:Why does he ignore me on Facebook now?I had a brief fling with a guy who is a bit of a player. He has now moved on to some other girl which I was quite bitter about and we are not as close anymore now. He used to keep in touch with me since we went our separate ways and I am still one of his FB friends, but he never responds to any of my timeline quotes.Even a simple message saying "Happy New Year to all" on my timeline he never responded to, whereas he does others.I know I shouldn't be obsessing over it - but it hurts me that we could be so close one minute and now he virtually ignores me. Why do some ex's act this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2015): Get some real friends and then stop measuring friendship on how many facebook likes and comments you get.
Friendship is a two way street. In this case it looks like a one way dead end street. Try to forget about him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 January 2015):
 Honey, stop putting so much focus on Facebook. THAT would be my first advice. It's not reality.
And I agree with Auntie Bim, you are OBSESSING over a man whom you had a brief fling with and now you see him for who he is, a guy who doesn't give you fly farts for you or your feelings.
WHY keep him around? In life or on Facebook? It's not like he is a positive influence on you or your life.
Block him, delete him and move on.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 January 2015):
 Players who flit, like a butterfly sipping on the nectar (or having brief flings) from one woman to the next do not get close to people. The closeness between you that you refer to did not exist ........ he was there for the fling not the feelings.
You know you are obsessing, getting stressy because he didn't respond to your facebook general happy new year greeting or other timeline comments really is obsessing.
You ask why some ex's act like this, I think the answer is because they can, because they are not emotionally involved, and I think in this case he may be picking up some vibes re your obsessing.
The best thing to do would be to block him, then what ever he does, or doesn't do, wont be able to affect you.
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