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Why does he hurt me and still keep me around?

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Question - (24 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The reason I left him was he was a liar and a cheater. The 1st time he did it I was calm about it and forgave him... The 2nd time was enough and with multiple girls. I left him and he agreed but said he still loved me. He is now with another cick and had sex with her after knowing her for only days. This bothers me because he had'nt told me thy were together and still treats me like before. Every night tells me he loves me, compliments me, tells me the sweetest things, kisses me. When I found out I acted like I didn't know (I wasn't supposed to he wanted to keep it from me). He notices I've been acting diffrent and said: If you think I'm seeing somone else Im not. I hav'nt looked at one. He promised he would change and thinks he has. I dont believe him; hes lied to me about cheating but then confessed... so why does he keep me around? He only hurts me.

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2008):

pepper27 agony auntSweetheart

The answer is staring you in the face..Because you are willing to listen to his lies forgive him take him back...Im going to be blunt love he does not love anyone but himself..He treats you like crap walks all over you and will carry on doing it AS LONG AS YOU LET IT CONTINUE!!!!!STOP THIS NOW!!!!!

Get rid of him hunny with all the love in my heart I say get rid of him get strong and move on.....

http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html

Read this link your young your strong and you have your whole life infront of you...Get him out of your life get reading this and then you will understand alot better, And as you are so young and going through this now it will help for the futour...DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE WALKED OVER EVER YOU ARE FAR TO SPECIAL FOR THAT! TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (24 May 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntThe answer is in your own question... !!

Hez having sex with Multiple partners and trust me tells everyone the same story as he does to you.. !! Some of us are Very Intellegent and we know that it's hard to get SEX without letting the girl know How much we love her.. That is why we Fake it.. !!

Hez probably into too much of a sex drive and my dear friend, Do you really want to go around with such a Guy..? You're too young to be stuck.. !! Go out there and you'll find Billions of humble guys who won't treat you like that...

Go aheah honey, let him know that you're aware of whatever he is doing.. The VERY FACT that he did not tell you about his other Physical realtion is enough for You to decide that hez a CHEAT.. !!

G'day and Live Long..

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