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*ovesickpup
writes:hello right here is my problem i have started seeing this lad he is a year and 37 days younger than me. ever since we have started seeing eachother he take the mick and calls me a kiddy fiddler do you think he actually believes that and do you think it is wrong for me to be with him. i dont care about the age plus his boody is to die for. and some ppl would say this was wrong but i need help on whether to stay with him or leavethankslovesickpup x Reply to this Question
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reader, rainbowcupcakes  +, writes (10 September 2008):
he's probably just joking, i do that to my boyfriend (he's five years older than me). but im just playing around.
but if it does bother you, talk to him. Ask him if he really thinks that? if he thinks age makes a difference? or simply tell him that it bothers you when he says that.
Remember,, talk before acting. Maybe he just wants to make u smile a while. (:
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reader, MissMilly +, writes (10 September 2008):
 Hi There,
Well 1 year 37 days is not that a big diffrence in age. Some celebraties are 30 and go out with 60 year olds. So dont worry about it.
He must obviously like you or he wouldn't have started dating you. If he is calling you a kiddy fidiler mabey he is joking or mabey he could be intimidated by you being older than him. It could be either.
You sould not be feeling worried or anything about this situation because it is perfectly normal for this.
Goodluck, Miss Milly :D
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 September 2008):
He's taking the mick because he's an immature little boy.
Of course 37 days doesn't make a difference!! That is rediculous!
Next time he says it just say "You know I think you are right, I shouldn't take advantage of you like this. Don't call me again." and walk away / hang up. Make him sweat for a bit.
He will panic like mad and come begging and NEVER say it again.
Good Luck!!
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