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writes: hi..ive being seeing this really cute guy for a while and every time we try to have sex he goes dead he says its because he's really shy but i don't know any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): He probably is really shy, and inexperienced with women.
You need to take things slowly with him, so that he feels more comfortable. Try and make him feel in charge.
Get him to talk more about what's going on in his head, he probably feels under pressure and because this has happened, it's probably made it even worse for him (if a bloke thinks too much that he is going to "loose" his erection - he will!)
The key to getting over this problem is communication and to show that you don't think there's any thing wrong with him. As soon as you've managed to have sex once, I bet you any thing it won't be a problem ever again! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): It just seems like he is very shy and selfconcious i dont think it has anything to do with you. he's just shy.
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