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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey there,i have a problem and im just getting sick of it. My bf has been acting really weird lately and in a mean way, he has been ignoring me and pushing me away. I try to talk to him about it but he just pretends he doesnt hear me or he just wont say anything back. I ask him if he really does want to be in this relationship and he says yes and that he loves me but he just hasnt been acting him self. Hes just always quite on the phone with me or when he texts me its like one word text mess.s and i ask him if i have anything to do with why he is like this and he says no im just not in a mood to really talk and he has been like this for a few weeks now. But some days he is in a fairly good mood and whenever we hang out he is happy and holding my hand its just mostly when he isnt around me. I guess what im trying to get at here is why is he like this or what can i do to try to talk to him and get him to be happy and really want to talk to me. I really do love him and i dont want to break up with him but im tired of him always bringing me down and him ignoring me.thanks :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): Try giving him a lot of space, stop texting him all of the time and calling him. Let him come to you...Guys can be strange and I am sure it has nothing to do with you, so stop asking him and change your behavior, you can't control his, the only person you can change is you. Stop acting clingy and needy and see what happens.
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