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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i'm really fustrated at the moment, i am single and have been single for about 6 weeks since i split up from my girlfriend of 2 years. The thing that really anoys me is that the lasses i meet or go out with always put me in the same catagory as their past b.f's or lads they know, they always think that i'm like the rest who cheat or don't treat them right.I treat women like i would like to be treated, with respect and show them attention and don't cheat. One of my lass mates is with this lad and he has cheated on her before and she still stays with him even though he treats her bad and hardly spends time with her! I feel this is stopping me from being with anyone as they won't give me the chance!
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reader, CRYSTAL23  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 That happens to a lot of men, but you have to realize its all about trust. If a women was cheated on (same as with a man)it hurts and most of the time they shut down emotionally and then stereotype every man the same. But in this day and age women are cheating just as much as men and two wrongs dont make a right.I dont believe in cheating, i think if a realationship is going through rough times then get counselling or get out, you will find a woman, you dont want to be with one of these women anyway because they will always have trust issues. Dont try too hard and you will find a nice woman. Just be yourself and they will eventually know who you are and who you're not like that... it takes time to build trust. While your waiting, try convincing your friend that his girlfriend is human too and that it is men like him that make women stereotype all men.
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