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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Why do I date ladies who are always "sick?"When I start dating ladies they are easygoing andwant to go out an do stuff. Then few months into the relationship they don't want to go anywhere or do anything but hang out at home! Whenever we make plans to hang out with friends/other people they become "sick."I think this is just an excuse! I am not sure why? Why does this keep happening over and over again with the ladies I date?They all seem to follow the same pattern! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): I am one of those women who is usually feeling sick when it comes time to attend a public event. I don't know why this happens. I know other women who are the same way. Social Anxiety? People tend to attract the same type of partners over and over again. Try dating someone you wouldn't have normally given a chance.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): I am the poster to this question.
One lady had a fake stomach ache or whatever else when it came to hanging out with my group of friends at the pub.
We use to go there every week and then...tooo sick...tooo tired etc.
The new lady I was seeing...we were suppose to have dinner with a group of my old friends when we were visiting my old town and canceled at the last minute....saying that she was sick and stayed at the hotel.
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male
reader, she makes me feel +, writes (10 April 2008):
 maybe you are suggesting activities only you're into. use persuasion techniques and suggest things (that you want to do) till she lights up, then let her think it's her idea. maybe reminisce about a past outting that you know she enjoyed. Another thing is maybe she's not good with groups. elaborate more on the "they become 'sick' " part.
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