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writes:I feel so alone. At 26, I have lots of friends but I want more than just friends. Most of my friends have boyfriends or husbands, and I have no one.The guy I dated moved away several months ago and we don't talk much any more, it makes me so depressed. Even though I know it's over and he wasn't for me, I still miss him and would do anything to have him back.I have no appetite, I just want to cry and sleep. I feel like I have nothing to look forward to and that my life is pathetic. Why do people find love so easily. All I want is to be in love with someone who supports me and love's me too. I would give anything for that, but I never meet any guys that interest me or that are interested in me! It's hopeless.I know this is just "poor me" stuff but I feel horrible and I want to find someone so badly. It's killing me!Anyone with advice or stories to make me feel better?
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reader, Umar yahaya  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 I am 21year i started love but i fine it very difficult because some of the girls a so unhonest some a lake a mordan education u fine it so difficult to understand u .
In oder time babies alway like money morethen ur relationship dat mean ur doing nothing 4 he.
My advice if want a girl first chek ur local authoraty and then fine educated one so u can try GOOD Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): http://www.lovesickfools.com/articles/broken_heart_right_way.htmlhttp://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-he-tells-you-that-he-wants-to-break-up-versus-when-he-treats-you-badly-till-you-break-up/It isn't that some people find love so easily. Some relationships are not meant to be because we often can fall in love with the wrong person for us. Love is not a feeling. It is a conscious decision to be worthy of love to committ to a person and extend yourself to another to promote his or her spiritual growth as well as your own. Love is action, it is a verb.If he wasn't worthy of love by extending himself to you, then he is the wrong man for you. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.Read the above articles and then read the article below.You're going through a grieving process and the final stage is acceptance. You have to accept that this relationship is over for good. Do not do anything to get him back. If he were the right person for you he would be doing everything he could to apologize to you and get you back, he isn't....time to move on with your life.Put your focus back on you were it belongs.http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.html
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (28 March 2010):
Hey! I'm right there with ya! I'm also 26 and it seems like a never ending abundance of douchebags keep coming my way! I think around this age you start thinking that you're getting old and that you're not that kid anymore that had years to worry about settling down and finding the one and now it's kind of around the corner.
I like to just think of it as I haven't met the right guy yet. There have been times where I thought that I did and it didn't work out and things seemed hopeless. Just remember that as pathetic or hopeless as your situation seems, things can change rapidly. Things are pretty stagnant for me in the guy department also, but I know that one day/night/weekend/whatever I could just meet someone and things will change from then on out. So don't worry about it. The right one can come along in the next hour, week, month, or year. You just never know! But trust me, you're not alone. I'm right there with you along with many other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): Hey there.
I'm totally following this topic since I'd love to know too.
Also, I think you have to keep your head up, no matter what. This is one thing that could bring you down, and makes you unattractive. Normally people are attracted by happy persons around them, persons who make them laugh, feel happy. If you keep on beeing sad, and don't go out, you'll get more depressed, and because of that you get even more depressed. Keeps on going down. I say stop here, start eating, start doing things you like and don't think about it too much. It'll come by itself.
I know this story contradicts with the first line I've wrote, but this is just my opinion about this whole thing.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 You will find someone, never give up searching!
You are still young and there is time to find a true love, it took me 20 years to find my true love and I am now 38.
One day when your least expecting it love will just happen for you. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and carry on living your life to its fullest.
If your confident then your more likley to attract decent men into your life. Not all men are jerks!
Try some on line dating sites, but use common sense!
Good luck.
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