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writes:why do nice girls fancy jerks?why do jerks types guys keeping getting girlfreinds.girls never see thsese guys as freind material,thses guys can have girl as girlfreind whenever they choose girls never say no when asking them out either.then they boost about then for a few months take then for granted and dumped them then.they kiss other girls act like it was nothing and move on to the next girl,if guy kiss me i,d be over welmed and delight.us girls are very stupid.why do jerks have so much sex appeal and huge egos.what type of girls do jerks go for any way?why were jerks guys invented?why are they so mean so cruel and heartless and selfish ,shallow,ogling gilrs breasts, always locker room talking,treated girls like dirt.?why are thses lads like this why.what do they get out it?so why do egiits like me keep wanting to like guys who keep treating me llike dirt and let them get away with it.guys (males) help me with this phenononan.
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reader, Miguel-Montana  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 its a complicated thing but one thing is for sure if a girl is only surrounded by nice guys who dedicate the whole day to them they'll start taking them for granted. thats y jerks are neccesary to help a girl realize that u cant take these type of men for granted. heres a good example if a girl dated a guy who spends almost the whole day with her never cheats on her and does really sweet things for her then eventually she's like i said is going to take him for granted. then she breaks up with him and goes for the "jerk" what happens then is what you said the jerk treats her like dirt and the girl realizes how nice and caring the othr guy was to her and wants to go back with him. this actually sucks alot for the guy that was nice to her bcuz he feels that hes not enough for her and doesnt appreciate the things he did for her and well beats him self up. thers only two things that could happen here the girl gets bak to the nice guy in time or the guy gets ovr her and the girl is to late. most of the time the girl is late and well a girl just gets acording to me depressed by it.
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reader, Lizzabeth +, writes (19 February 2009):
Your long 'question' is not facts, its your experience Im gathering and by the sounds of it you've been treated badly by a so called 'Jerk'.These jerks are confident in themselves, often have the way with words and can therefore use this to attract girls with minimal effort. Girls are drawn to it and are a sucker for 'words' often thinking they will be the one to tame the player but its never happens so they are left heartbroken but the next girl comes along thinking she'll be the one. It is considered girls always like what they shouldnt..Guys build a reputation for being a player, being the 'man' for getting with as many girls as possible. However, think about it what girl in the near future is going to go near a guy who has been through half the school/college etc and actually want to settle down with him?! This using and abusing of girls will only give him a bad reputation when he's older leaving the 'nice guy' to get the girl.If you know who these guys are then ask yourself what is you like about them? What do you want from this guy? How do you want to be treated? You should know automatically this guy wont be good for you.Look for different guys to get involved with, maybe who have a particular interest other than girls and who you might get to know for themselves.Only a final point not all guys are like this, so head up you will find the one. You might not want to wait but its better to wait for someone special rather than settle for anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This phenomenon is even more confusing and frustraiting for guys who treat girls with respect, but have less luck finding one. To all girls, dump the jerk guy and go out with a guy who respects you! Or eventually the nice guy will just think, "wait a minute why would would i want to go out with a girl who appears stupid and likes jerk guys anyway!?"
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