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writes: There's this guy at my badminton who'll stare at me constantly, mostly with a smile on his face. And if I stare back he'll alert his friends and they'd all turn round and look at me. In our last game, he stayed next to our court and got his friends to do the same. He stared the whole way through, and I knew because he started stumbling over his words. Plus they were more silent than talking to each other. My question is why are he and his friends staring at me?? Can anyone please explain what's going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha OK thanks! Well I do have this other guy I like in my Uni classes. My friend told me that he started staring at me before I even started liking him. And he still stares, so do his friends. When I speak to him on fb, he's constantly apologising for not replying, kinda funny actually. Also his friends have been bringing him up in conversation. So we'll see :-)
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reader, Denizen +, writes (19 February 2016):
You could always try the old trick of dropping something, like a wrist band, as you walk out just before him. It gives him the opportunity to pick it up and run after you. It gives him the excuse to approach you.
If he can't manage that perhaps you need to find another likely suitor with a bit more pluck. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah well I have nothing that they can to the mick out of so...he has said hey to me once but it was like even that was hard for him. All my friends catch him staring and smiling when I'm not looking and say he likes me but I wanna be 100% sure. I won't see him until Wednesday anyway, I only have badminton once a week. Thanks for replying!
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reader, Denizen +, writes (19 February 2016):
This is not your problem. If he fancies you he needs to get the courage to ask you out. If on the other hand he and his friends are playing some mean game then you still need to ignore them.
What do your friends think? It is hard to give an opinion when one isn't there to judge for onesself.
Just keep enjoying your badminton and see what transpires. Let us know how you get on.
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