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writes: Why do men hesitate to make the first move? I've liked a guy at my workplace (works on different floor so don't always see him) for some time now...at least 5 months. Thing is I know he likes me..he has given subtle signs, eg blushing when talking to me etc. But I am not sure he realises my feelings for him though as although I may have given subtle signs, certainly not obvious ones anyway, I am good at hiding my feelings! It is always hard to have a good converstion at work and it seems these days all I can mangage to say is hi..or bye! I do not want to make a move as I am shy and not forward at all in this way. Is it unfair of me to be waiting for him to say something? Why would he be hesitating, he is single but quiet too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2006): Sounds like he is really shy!
Unless you tell him, he has no idea how you really feel.
Like you've said - you are good at hiding your feelings. He is too.
It's been five months already - I think if you continue to wait, you'll be waiting a long time! (perhaps forever?)
Think of something you can do to make it a little more obvious that you do like him. Perhaps email him? Perhaps go for a little more conversation?
Sorry shy girl but if you want this guy, you are going to have to take the first move. Maybe you could just take a massive step and email him this web-page? :)
Good luck!
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