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*hiannon3
writes:It’s been a long time since I had a question. Most of my questions revolved around my baby daddy. He is out of the picture. I’m coming to realize he is toxic. He has nothing to do with our child or pays child support. I no longer want a relationship with anyone. I have instead started sleeping with younger men. After the sex is done my first thought is my baby daddy. I try hard not to but still do. Why is this happening? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2021): Seems obvious to me: you're still in love with him.
My guess is that if you get into a good relationship he will fade from your mind.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2021): I think you should be thinking about getting your legal ducks in a row to get the child-support your child deserves.
I also think you should be getting your mind adjusted and working-on expecting more from men than being used and objectified.
Don't you want something meaningful? Aren't you tired of games and people just passing through your life?
Sweetheart, you're raising a child alone. Your behavior and lifestyle sets an example for your kid. If it's a girl, she should have a strong sense of self-worth, a healthy self-esteem, self-respect, and demand to be treated well by men.
If your child is a boy; he should respect women. He should have solid character, take responsibility for his actions; and feel proud of his heritage and origins. While holding the highest regard for the mother who devoted her life to being both his mother and father; and bringing him up as a man single-handedly.
All you should be thinking about your baby's daddy, is how much back child-support he owes, and how you're going to get it???
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