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I want her to try something new.

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Question - (20 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm a 22 year old male and have been seeing this girl on and off for quite some time. We have a relatively deep connection and are completely comfortable with each other sexually and have sex quite often without exclusively seeing each other. She has not really explored and is limiting herself to just having sex with me. But I feel like she is missing something from her sex life.

She is a very sexually inclined individual, she is always in the mood to have sex, she masturbates very frequently but is only comfortable having sex with me. I want her to try out other things but I feel she may be too shy and because of this she is not getting what she could get out of her sex life. My best friend how I am completely comfortable with in every aspect, we have no awkwardness in any type of situation is very well hung and used to date this girl friend.

Her friend mentioned that my best friend had a big dick and it came up in conversation between us and she seemed very curious about it and when I asked her if she wanted to see it, because I could ask my friend to show her and he would, she said no even when I know for a fact that the thought of it excites her because even before this instance the four of us used to joke about a foursome and I had mention I was not sure if she could even handle my friend and she eagerly said she was up for a challenge.

I know she wants to find out what it would be like to have sex with my friend but I think she is too shy. How can I persuade her to try it out?? I think she would really enjoy it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

I think she's going to move on from you. She wants a guy that's wants her and NOBODY else to touch her. It's called jealousy. The good kind, when you feel your boyfriend only wants YOU, and no one else to HAVE you.

It's a matter of time before you're history.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

Maybe this girl is happy and fulfilled with her sex life! The only way you are going to find out if she wants more is to talk to her openly and not to discuss things with other people!

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