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writes:One lad is in love with me, and two there lads fancy me.We shall call the lad that is in love with me GUY 1, Well i like GUY 1 as well, in fact i love him too, but he has really hurt me before and i am so scared he will hurt me again.GUY 2 fancys me and i have no feelings what so ever for him, only as a mate.GUY 3 fancys me, well i used to fancy him but for like 3 days. Now i dont like him apart from as a mate.Also the lad that is in love with me has a really gorgeous friend, oh my god he is just so FIT. and i fancied him a while ago. And now a few of them feelings i had for him are creeping back.And then there is this other lad that i have only met 3 times i liked him as soon as i saw him, but i only saw him 3 times and i dont no how to get in touch with him so i might as well give up there.Also there is this other lad, well i dont fancy him and i dont think he fancys me but like, he always calls me this nick name and i call him a nick name too and lately that has made us talk more and today he was proper flirting i think with me like he kept poking my arm and when i walked past him he nudged me with his arm and walked away and smiled at me. and he always points at me and smiles and acts so chatty to me and then at break today i was talking to him quit alot. and im afraid feelings are going to come for him too, doyou think he likes me ?and im already so very confused. i mean i love GUY 1 because he is an ex, and i do still have feelings for him, but the break we have had from each other has open so many new doors i just dont know whether to move on or not, because i can still have him, but with all these other feelings i have for others im just so confused and can not figure anything out and its making me depressed kinda.But anyway yes, i dont know what to do, i have so many choices in my life and am afraid i will make the wrong one.What can i do? Anything that will help me decide what to do about this all? Why do i have so many feelings for so many different people ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Im in the EXACT same situation! Well think about it like this totally FORGET boy 1 & 2 cos you dont like them , if they fancy you think of it like well we dont all get what we want! I think BOY 1 seems the best , yopu have feelings for eachother which is better than one way! hope i helpedd x
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 You are all too young to have commitments! ITs much better to date a lot of boys for fun WITHOUT sex! Go out with who ever you like while you are young. By the time you are in your 30s you won't have as many choices or be in the situation that you fancy every boy you see!
Have fun. Don't start sleeping around as you will end up hurt and depressed and have a lot of problems that you can avoid by just liking a lot of boys and keeping it like friends until you have more experience in life.
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