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writes:This is something really serious to me so please dont think im like a friken loser but... I have been with the same girl for two years and it was great until the end as i have explained in my other questions. I just wanted to know why in the hell i cant let this girl go and get out of my head. I love her passionatly and dont want to be done, but now she has a new boyfriend and says that she is happy. But she tells me these things about how she doesnt want to break down and cry infront of me when we see eachother so what she does is put on a stupid smile and talks alot. Here is why its so difficult... I seen this girl with me for the rest of my life, she fit every discription of what i wanted in a women and she told me that i was perfect. I dont get why she acts like i mean so much and i have seen her cry infront of me cause she doesnt want to let me go, but she wants to be with this other guy. im 20 in college play college football in three choirs and she is 18 graduating from high school but going PSEO at college so she will graduate from college this year with her AA degree as well. we have so much in common its uncanny. She tells me that she loves me and cares for me and its really hard for her, and a friend of mine that works with her tells me that she really does look heartbroken she just doesnt want to show it infront of you... thats what i dont get, if she wants to be with me then why did she call it off and now with another guy? its like telling me one thing and doing another.. is she just trying to have two guys kinda like a back up or does she just not know and is to immature to understand what to do. I am a wonderful guy i think and so does everyone else. I treated her like a princess cause thats what girlfriends are and how they should be treated. Im lost and I am hurt and I just want Lena back, what can I do when i live two hours away from her at college? how can i show her that she made a mistake like everyone else is saying she did? should i not talk to her? by the way i have been there for every single thing she has needed in the past when she was sick i took care of her when she was sad i comforted her, when she was low on money and couldnt make a payment i gave her the rest of my money even if i didnt have anymore. She ment the world to me and two months after the break up, my feelings havent diminished at all and its driving me crazy! I dont know what to do, I have tried to let go but it just doesnt work, This love i have from what has happend now i know is true love. What do you people think i should do? any answer is helpfull thanks
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reader, Cotton +, writes (25 November 2008):
Cotton is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i know i am not suppose to see her at all and stuff but like everyday since the break up my feelings are just getting stronger and stronger, no im not freaking out without her and knowing she is with another guy. but i still long for her and wish she was by my side. how can you move on when you feel so much love and passion for someone? I dont get it. This sucks
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 November 2008):
You have to cut contact and try to move on.
She may have made a mistake but by being there for her to cry on and use you are not exactly making her realise that. She is still getting to be with her new boyfriend while having you be her faithful puppy.
Move on and don't keep seeing her. Tell her that you have to not be in touch for a while so you can get over her.
Good Luck!! xx
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