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writes:hi...!please i am 29 (male). never been in a relationship. my problem is, i get nauseous sometime when aroused. i.e (something like feeling sick) could that be normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (12 November 2014):
 "fear' is a powerfull contribution some physical anomolies. By fear I mean anxieties of the unknown and/or the'fear of not being able to perform at some level. We men tend to thik we are totally responsible for the success or failure of any sexual experience. some of that self imposed expectation is phoney but some of it is real. After all, If she fails to have an awsome orgasm are we not to blame by being inadequate? The anxieties we pile on to our psychological reality can cause physical revulsion at the prospect of failure. But, just relax you will get over this as you get older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2014): Hi, older than dirt. I am curious as well what you mean by fear. I am 26 years old (female) and experience similar to what OP says. I have had relationships, though.
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reader, New guy +, writes (7 November 2014):
New guy is verified as being by the original poster of the question hi.... olderthandirt, what do you mean by fear? or, at least what kinda fear are you talking about? thanks...!
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (7 November 2014):
Not at all normal. There's no physical reason. You have a subconcious thing going on that needs to be addressed. Fear is most likely the enemy here.
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