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writes:Why do I find my uncle so sexy? Im into older men always have been and I dont get to see my uncle very much as he and my aunt do their own things but they also do things together. So last week we spent a good few days in each other company, others about, personal matter this is why. But we flirted outragously. Whats it all about
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): Your uncle must be a handsome or attractive man, which is why you find him sexy. Do you find yourself becoming sexually aroused or excited when you are with him? That may explain why you flirt with him. And have you thought or fantasized about having sex with him? If you had sex with him, o you think you would enjoy it? If the answer is yes to all these questions, that may be why you find him sexy, because you see him and immediately start fantasizing about having sex with him.By the way, there is nothing wrong with feeling this way. It's normal to find people of the opposite sexy sexually appealing. I have read posts from girls or young women who find their uncle sexy and who said they had some kind of sexual experience with their uncle because they thought he was hot.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (19 October 2007):
Your a horney young girl with flirting skills and you feel good using them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI never said anything was going to happen, I was just wondering why I was feeling this way!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Sorry, even if you're not married, it's still the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Finding your uncle sexy and attractive is the same as finding any other man that you can find sexy and attractive. It's your recognition of what you deem sexy and attractive in men. There are no boundaries as to whom you find beautiful and whom you find handsome.
However, the concept of beauty is a different topic than the one where you two were flirting outrageously. It could mean a few things, and this can also be caused by his own personality. Just because someone is flirtatious, it doesn't mean that person desires to pursue anything deeper with you. Even if there is that possibility, why are you asking what it all means when in fact you are already married and he is already married as well?
Wouldn't it be an automatic shrug off regardless of your attraction towards him? I was just thinking if I was in a healthy relationship, regardless of what super hot woman comes to me and flirts, I wouldn't be asking "What does it all mean?" I might amuse myself and think, "If I was single, I would probably like her that way." And that's about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFor the record im in a relationship, have been for 6 years and we have 2 young kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2007): Perhaps you read something into it which wasn't there - I'm not saying you did, it's just a possibility that you misread hm being friendly as being flirty towards you. You are a young woman, no doubt available and fun loving, and this appeals to him. When we are in a serious relationship, sometimes a little flirting can make us feel young and attractive again, and this maybe where he's coming from. Im assuming he is not a blod relative and is married to your aunt who is, however if he is your blood relative, then him even thinking about flirting with you is pretty unpleasant. So let's assume he isn't. This payful flirting must be stopped, by you, because you canot control what he does or how he acts...and imagine how hurt your flirting would make your aunt, who I'm sure loves you dearly. In answer to your question, it is fine to be attracted to someone, sometimes we can't help it, but you need to be strong and not encourage any more flirting or it may lead places you really don't want to go. When you see him next, then be friendly and nice, but hold off on the physical contact or playful jibes, if you need any encouragement to help you over your fancying him, then just picture how your aunt would react if she were there.. best of luck XX
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 October 2007):
He finds you cute, attractive and playful. What do you expect from him, a married man?
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