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writes:To make a long story short. Im 19 years of age and im in college and i know it's natural for males to sometimes glance at a females ass and such, i do that sometimes when i see these college junior girls.I get boners in awkward times. like when im in class and the professor is explaining how to do something to the class, i get a boner but i don't pay it no attention because i know it will go away soon, but this is affecting me more with my relationship life, because every girl i meet, im sometimes always thinking about sex, when i see a hot girl in a 2 piece, i want to do it to them.Is this normal? will this go away in the future? am i perv? please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, JustToonz +, writes (4 November 2013):
JustToonz is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni haven't masturbated in 4 days but i want to now because you all have made me feel comfortable.
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (3 November 2013):
You're 19 and your testosterone is raging.I'm glad i'm not a 19 year old of today.Back in my day women were covered up and sexual activity outside marriage was frowned upon.It's normal for today's society.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 November 2013):
It'll be more controllable when you get a little older. For now, use it to your advantage and find someone to release that energy with.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 November 2013):
 Welcome to the world of testosterone!!!!!
Good luck...
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reader, Marie59 +, writes (3 November 2013):
I think that you are completely normal. Theres nothing wrong with that. Im a girl and believe me we think about sex just as much as you guys do. Just because you are young and have these hormones does not make you a pervert. You're only a pervert if you creepily act on these feelings. Just dont let your feelings and emotions control you. Always make your decisions with a clear head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013): You're a strong and healthy male who is teaming with hormones and your body is still growing and maturing. It takes a while for the hormones to level off. You will continue physically maturing until you're 21. Some people actually continue physical growth until their 22!
You can just distract yourself with a thought away from sex. You'll master that in time. If you're around someone you're attracted to, spontaneous erections are just a thing we guys have to deal with almost all our lives.
It's a common problem among guys, we like thinking about sex. You'll learn mind-control is a built-in mechanism we have to overrule involuntary impulses. Just practice, and it should work 90% of the time. If you're in a room full of attractive women, your mind will be pretty active. Girls are thinking about sex too! They have no visible embarrassing body responses to worry about. Sometimes their nipples peek through. You should then focus on their eyes.
The room is full of people thinking about sex. Regardless of gender and sexual orientation. You are not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2013): The male cupids can probably answer better than me but you sound like every man I've ever known!
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