A
female
age
30-35,
*nalyticalMentalityOx
writes:I don't know why i'm feeling like this? I literally have gone from guy to guy these past few weeks because i feel I just want to always have a guy there! Whether it's texting them seeing them or such...... And I just want to add that i've not done anything physical with these guys so i don't mean it in that sense.But when I am getting to know someone if it doesn't work out or i get bored them, i feel like i need to be talking to another guy or have some attention from them! So i'll be texting a guy until i find someone else, which is bad cause i know that i am leading that guy on and then just kicking them to the side. Everywhere i go out now I am always subtly looking for someone, i do it without realizing sometimes!? little example, one night my friends brother was flirting with me and there was no attraction at all but i was still flirting back? I also nearly got with two of my sisters friends! Then a few nights ago i purely went out to find a guy!! And when i was in the club i had this massive urge to get with a guy that night! (just kiss them not hooking up) Which I don't normally think about or do on a night out, i just go out to have a good time! So that surprised me/my friends... I met quite few guys but what really hit me was when i saw an attractive guy who showed me interest but was sure he was 10 years older! and i didn't care about the age gap i just wanted to kiss them and have their attention that night! ....I didn't in the end, because i knew that he was to old for me and i'd feel sick about myself after.... I just want to know why i'm feeling like this and acting this way!?! How can i get it to go away? and Before anyone says it's father/family issues or whatever, i have to point out that i have a brilliant relationship with everyone in my family and get a lot of attention from everyone! .......Which makes me question my actions and feelings even more!!?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Sounds like poor self-esteem to me. Once you improve the way you think about yourself you won't require all the male attention. There are all sorts of books and articles on the subject. Google it and do a little research.
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