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*haymeyabu
writes: Why don't they ever text first.?On my mobile phone I have this girls number. We're not an item but most would say we probably should be. One niggly little thing that I can't understand is that I always have to text her first. She never ever texts me. When I text her the craic is 90 from then on but I have to start the ball rolling. Why would this be?
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reader, kat14 +, writes (5 November 2006):
It works both ways i get annoyed coz this guy who appears to like me alot more than i like him but never texts me. I always do it first. I dont think they mean anything by it. Why dont u send her a text asking her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006):
There's two types of people in the world, those who like and text a lot, and those who don't. Maybe she is the second kind of person? Or maybe she is the first but just not in to you? Maybe you could mention something to her. It's the only way you're going to possibly change things; she might not even realise that it actually bothers you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): girls usually leave that up to the guys. at least in most of my cases. don't worry about it, just occasionally start conversations with her, and show her you like her. she will eventually start texting you
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reader, Ivanna22 +, writes (3 November 2006):
she could be playing hard to get or she's not as interested in you as you are in her.
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