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I fantasize about my boyfriend having sex with other women, does this make me a Lesbian?

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Question - (3 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I Fantasize about My boyfriend having sex with other women, does this make me a Lesbian? I wouldn't want to be with another woman But i Can't stop thinking that I might be. I fantasize about girls that he thinks are sexy, it turns me on and I Picture what he would do to them. Please Help!

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A female reader, Lemonpixie United States +, writes (3 November 2006):

Lemonpixie agony auntIt can also denote that you have some insecurities about your self. You'd rather picture him with someone else rather than yourself. But that doesn't mean it's bad. And it definitely doesn't make you a lesbian. This has happened to be once or twice, and I did it when i was feeling insecure about myself.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006):

Creative, yes. Lesbian, not necessarily. So, don't give it another thought. Just get on with the sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006):

This doesn't mean you are a lesbian at all. It's just something that turns you on. A fantasy. Many people actually like to watch their partner have sex with another.

I used to fantasize about my fiance having sex with other women whilst we were having sex but that was just a fantasy. I know I would feel very differently about watching him have sex with another woman for real

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