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Why do I always ''arrive'' faster with girls than with guys? I think I'm bisexual

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Question - (2 March 2017) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2017)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, i'm looking for some advice here. Right so, im pretty sure im bisexual, or hetrofelxible, or whatever doesn't really matter im well experienced with both sexes.

So, there was this guy, i came over to his, he was waiting naked, proceeded to erected my penis and then we had lovely sex.

Theres this girl, we made out, flirted, i preformed oral, as did she and then we had sex.

The problem, my question is, why did i, and do i always 'arrive' faster with girls then guys?

Always 100% of the time, even when im masturbating to porn, lesbian porn makes me cum faster then gay porn, but weirdly, gay porn, gay sex makes me harder? Any ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2017):

I'm gay. I've had experience with both men and women too.

I think it doesn't make a difference who makes you come faster; if you want an honest answer. It doesn't make you any less gay, or any more straight.

Perhaps you like to prolong the experience with men, and just like to get-off with women.

I think it's more important to decide who among anyone (regardless of gender) gets to your heart faster?

Time to make sex meaningful, wouldn't you say?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (2 March 2017):

chigirl agony auntI think it's probably a matter of your body preferring that particular kind of stimulation over the other. Even as a bisexual myself, I don't like both genders 50/50. It's more common for bisexuals to lean somewhat more towards one gender for sex, and one for relationships, or to have other things they prefer more or less with each gender. So the division is more like 60/40, or even 30/70 in some cases. For you it sounds like you are almost equally divided between the two genders, or at least you try to be, lol. So maybe you like sex with women 55% and with men 45%?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2017):

I think you're over thinking the situation. Yes, you're bi and that gives a bit more of a range to deal with, but you're into what you're into!

It's like me trying to explain why I like women with long, dark hair. Yes, I like blondes, but long dark hair just... does it for me that little bit more!

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A female reader, RubyBirtle United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2017):

I'm afraid I don't know the answer to this one but why does it actually matter?

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