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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me a few months ago, and we haven't talked since then. He sent me a text on New Years Day to wish me a Happy New Year. But he never sent me one on my birthday. Last week was his birthday and I sent him a text - a very simple one - wishing him Happy Birthday. But he never text back... Why is he doing that? It would be nice to receive even just a "Thank you".
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 March 2011):
Sorry Babe, but "text" is on the wall, if you get my drift.
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male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 March 2011):
He's over you, and wants you to know it. I think you now need to accept that what you two had is gone, and that you now need to move on.
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (10 March 2011):
I think you are wasting to much energy worrying about this. Yes it would be nice that he did thank you, but obviously he thinks it is better to maybe move on and not contact you. The relationship is over now and if you havent spoke since you both broke up with each other well then am guessing you both decided not to stay in contact.
I'm not sure I could give you plenty of reasons why he never texted you back but I dont think that is the problem here, the problem is that you still care about why he never texted you back. I dont think you should be worrying about this. You need to accept that you are no longer together and therefore he is no longer part of your life. I think it is best just to let him go and move on with your life.
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