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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I feel terrible. It is a long story, but my boyfriend is not allowed to see my kids right now for a short time due to their father's delusional behavior. BF doesnt want his parents to know that he is not seeing my children because he feels that they would disapprove of the situation and wants to present an all happy-happy front. I understand this and agree as his parent's good regards are very important to me. Well tonight(Saturday) I called him to find that he was over at his parents for dinner as well as his best (a female, but nothing romantic there) friend and in fact it was a party! I was so crushed to know that I had not been invited to this party. I didnt know if his parents didnt want me there or he didnt, but either way I was sooo hurt. I hung up the phone and just cried. Not wanting to interupt the party with my whininess I texted him to say how upset I was. He then called and I ignored the call, but he left a voicemail saying that they and he wanted me at the party, but since he knew I had the kids he made up an excuse to them that I was busy and couldnt come.I texted back that I could have gotten a babysitter and made the excuse that the kids were busy, but that I could come, but I wasnt even given the chance! Also that he could have TOLD me about the party and his excuse for me, but instead he let me stumble on the knowlege. In his voice mail he was angry, but said he would call me later. It is now 1:00 in the morning and I havent heard from him. I tried calling him a midnight, but got his voicemail. I am so crushed! Why didnt he tell me about the party? Why didnt he call me? Why didnt he answer the phone? Was I wrong to get so angry and feel so hurt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Dont worry everything will be fine!!!he was answearing immiedaiatley after your msg so it means that he carres. You shouldnt be so angry at him he was having a good excus, he was thinkin that u want to send the time with your kids, you should appreciate it!!!that was just a dinenr with his parents!dont be paranoid:))))wish u all the best
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