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writes:I go to this resturant every couple months with my family and the waiter always stares at me and talks to my family like he is trying to impress them. He waves to me makes eye contact and everything.My mom said the guy is trying so hard leave your number. I am pretty shy about these things so my sister wrote on the bill my number and wrote on it My sis is cute and single plus my name. Anyway the guy never called me. I told my mom that I was never going in that resturant agian and we laughed! My mom thinks since it was at the top of the bill maybe he didn't see it. I don't think the guy has a girlfriend or he would not have been makeing that much eye contact and talking and standing at the table forever talking to my grandma and mom about how he was in the military and how his grandma raised him exc exc he talked to us forever and keep looking at me. What the heck man Why did he not call me? It's not the end of the world for me because he didn't call it's just I thought he was interesed. Can anyone tell me why he would seem interested then not call?
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (13 June 2008):
 With some guys, the flirting is comfortable, taking things beyond that is hard and they have to work themselves into things. It is possible he never saw your number, didn't know which of you was which or just chickened out.
Go back with a friend and see what his reaction to you is. If he's friendly, then just point blank tell him you are interested in him and can you give him your number.
Let him take it from there.
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reader, Twirly  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 Ahh, I agree with Nikita, you could pop back and give him your number yourself, or give him the chance to approach you.
He may not have seen the number, and also may have been shy to ask himself while your Mum was there.
Go back with your Sis or a girlfriend, or perhaps call up!
Good luck! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): So, mylover4liferick, you are just bitter?
OP, maybe he just thought that it was your sister being silly, and that you don't actually like him? Maybe you should swing by the restaurant if you like him, and leave him your number yourself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): he is a prev and you are so better off without him gurl trust me ok i had a guy hit on me at mcdonalnds and it was a freakin odd moment i gave him my number and he never called me either so yea you aren't alone
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