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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i recently went on a school trip and everyone was in the living room. Slowly one by one everyone went to bed and me and this girl were left. We were lying next to each other on the sofa just talkin in the dark. She put her head on my chest and started just touchin my chest. I put my arm round her and she guided it to her chest. Anyway one thing led to another and she took her top and bra off. She put her hand down my pants. And she wanted me to touch her. I had to go toilet so i said let me go quickly. She went of top of me and started kissin me, wouldn't let me go. So i went toiletI came back and she was dressed again and said she's goin to bed. What happened? I didn't argue just said good night. Why did she go?Its been a few days it bugging me, does she like me? Its been a bit awkward since
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reader, josemaria  +, writes (20 June 2008):
sometimes girls don't really think of sex but of romanantic words and love. Note that if she agrees to have sex with does not signifies true love. she did change her mind because she got herself back, initially her sex drive over power her but you left(toilet) she was herself
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Your ruined it, she was hot for whatever reason and you ruined it. You might at least have tried to put a move on her.
Go kick yourself.
1. Girl starts to seduce you and gets half-naked and invites foreplay.
2. You go to the toilet.
3. She feels rejected and gets dressed and says she is going to bed.
4. You just say goodnight.
Exactly what part of that doesn't tell her "this guy is not interested"? Especially part 4, she was STILL THERE you had a chance to talk to her, she could easily have just gone but she gave you one last chance.
Years from now you will look back on this and still kick yourself. Trust me... you ain't the only idiot on this forum...
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Man, the bathroom break killed the mood.
Just go talk to her about what happened, you say it's been awkward between you two? She may have felt rejected, that you purposely left to end things.
Good luck!
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 She probably didn't feel the mood anymore. I've had the same thing happen - me and the boy will be getting intimate, then BAM! Toilet break.
There's nothing very sexy about running off to the loo. Perhaps next time, try and make sure you've gone beforehand. ;-)
As for whether she likes you or not, it's hard to say. She may have done, and felt rejected when you had to get up. Your best bet is to talk with her about it.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Seems she lost the moment. Could be she thought you weren't interested in her or could be she thought she would be making a mistake. She can only answer that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): i think its because she was in the moment and after u left she felt that the specal moment was ruened.
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