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writes:I was with a girl for two year and found by chance she was seeing someone else. I walked away upset, but caused no problems at all,this was 10 month ago and all through this time she has constantly displayed strange behaviour to me. Sometimes talking soemtimes not, once or twice tears. I have tried to maintain a friendship but feel she has pushed me away in all aspects. This i dont understand when she is the one that moved on shall we say...I won't deny i have struggled with it all but have got on with it, and sort of hoped that she would be a little friendly towards me, i even hoped at one point i would get answers.I now find myself go through a period of anger towards her becuase of the way she appears to have simpy dismissed me in all aspects and i also feel she doesnt want to have a laugth or communicate with me and this i find difficult to come to terms with particluarly as i have never begged her to come back or harassed her in anyway, i accept her choice and respected it..I recenlty found out her behaviour has not improved and she is up to the same tricks with the new guy, i am going through a period where i feel like i want revenge, to give her a reality check, drop her in it so to speak.My question is two fold. 1) Why have i received such behaviour form her ? 2) Is it so bad to even consider revenge type attitude ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): I am in a similar situation, please ignore her.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Revenge is wasted energy. It forces you to dwell on hatred. It consumes you and eats away at your soul. Don't waste another thought on her, that is giving her too much power over your life. Leave her to her own fate, her own karma. Whatever she has done to others, it will come back to her tenfold. There's an old saying - "The best revenge is living well." - and it really is the best path to take. Concentrate instead on yourself and your life, and you will wind up finding someone who truly loves you at some point. Take Care.
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