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anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend broke up with me a year ago we dated for a month b4 we broke up. Then a few weeks later he would call me and beg for me back but i was upset. then i started talking to my best friend adam. i started dating adam a month after my break up. Then throughout my whole relationship with adam my ex boyfriend was jealous but we would talk like friends. My ex would always say he loved and missed me, would comment on pictures, visit me at work. Then just recently 'like almost a year' after talking and being friends with my ex. he deceides to block me on facebook for no reason. sure he had a girlfriend but i had a boyfriend way b4 he did and my relationships last longer. So to make the story short idk why he blocked me. my ex's relationships last a week and mime has lasted a year with adam. I want to spend the rest of my life with my current boyfriend adam. The problem is that i still like knowing how my ex is doing. He blocked me out of his life after fighting to get me back for a year. I try getting him out of my head no luck. i work close to were my ex lives so sometimes i drive right past him. Its like im trying to get away from a person whos been in my life all along and even though i totally am going to marry my current boyfriend adam i still am stuck feeling bad that my ex blocked me. Its like i have a soft spot for him and even though he made me pissed off, i still wanted to say hi. I know that now i will never be able to talk to my ex or be his friend but the problem is that it bothers me. How can i stop feeling this way about my ex and move on forever?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): He blocked you because he's given up on you (at least for now) and has a new girlfriend and doesn't want to jeopardize anything.
The difference between his having a girlfriend and you having a boyfriend is that your boyfriend didn't matter to him but his girlfriend does. He isn't pursuing you anymore so he has no need of friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): You can still say hi to him if you run into him at the store or walking down the sidewalk. Even if he doesn't say hi back, you are being the bigger person by saying hi and being nice.
It's hard to say why he blocked you. Maybe his new gf was jealous. Maybe he finally gave up on getting you back and blocking you helped make him feel better because then he couldn't see you online anymore. Or maybe he's just immature and wants to tell you how he feels in the most passive-aggressive way ever. Who knows? Only him!
I wouldn't let it get to you. Spend lots of time with Adam, and you'll get past this. Don't worry about why your ex blocked you. I know you want to stay friends, but honestly, sometimes it's not worth the worry and frustration!
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (9 July 2011):
your ex has probably got a new girlfriend and she is probably jealous maybe she realizes that her boyfriend still likes you so maybe she has asked him to block you so he cannot have any contact with you again
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