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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm not sure what's going on with my ex. He sent me a message on the instant messenger on facebook saying hello, and i said hello back and asked how he was, and he said he was ok, and told me that he got this message that i sent him a while ago, but he hadnt had the internet for a while. I said i was glad that he got the message, and i was glad he was ok, then he just said right i'm off to bed anyway, night. Do you think he was being abrupt there , or do you think maybe he wanted to say something else but wasnt sure how ?. I just dont see what the point was in him writing to me if that was all he was going to say. Do you think i should speak to him again sometime ?.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 If am honest it sounds like he was just acknowleding you and letting you know that he got your message. I wouldnt read to much in to it, because to me it sounds like he never really had much else to say. However how you deal with it from here is completely up to you. You see its hard to give you advice because i dont no the facts like how long ago did you'se break up and who broke up with who and was there much contact between you. So all am going to say to you is if you want to talk to him again then go for it, the next time he is on IM on facebook just ask him how he is and take it from there. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): alot of the time that is really all men want to say is hi but again at times it does mean they want to say more really the only way to know is if you talk to him again before you do ask yourself do you have feelins for him why did the relationship end and are you willing to start it again if thats where it leads but dont get your hopes up on it if you are want in a relationship with him again because it may just be a hello how are you doin depending on how long your relationship was
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