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writes:so i am talking to this guy our moms hooked us up we live four hours away from each other we have been talking for a month now i have went up to see him twice the only thing is we dont talk much in person we are both really kinda shy. he is really sweet and means well he has respect how do i get him to open up to me about how he feels without coming on too strong and how do i go about showing him that is ok to be a lil touchy feely i feel as if he thinks i dont want him to or im scared because of me always being so tense.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Ok so you are both shy people which is really awkward when you have only met each other twice. It is easy to talk over the internet as it is only typing but face to face is so much harder, the only way this will get better is for the both of you to spend more time with each other and get to know each other better, the more physical contact you have with each other the more comfortable you will both be with each other.
If you are scared that he thinks you dont like him because you are tense then just explain to him when you are talking over the internet that you do like him that you are just shy and tell him that if he wants to the next time he sees you he is free to put his arm around you or hold your hand as you would like that.
goodluck.
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