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writes:my ex fiance who i split with badly 6 years ago contacted me on facebook the other night requesting friendship.i thought this weird as ive only just got on there-we have no mutual friends so therefore confused to get this email.anyway out of curiosity i accept this request and had a look on his profile and all i saw were wedding pictures-i didnt know he got married.the point is we had a nasty split so what is this in aid of ?we have nothing to say to each other-hes married so i cant understand what the intention was here-surely if you have just got married you dont want to dredge up your past. anyway i feel a fool i was so upset i deleted the friendship. i feel sad that he had to do that-cant understand what his motive was
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey oldersister thanx for the adviceno he didnt know my email because it was 6 years ago and i changed everything email, mobile number etc
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): There is one other possibility...when I joined facebook recently, I accidently sent a friend request to everyone in my email account. I didn't realize that facebook would do this and my ex's address was one of them, along with work colleages, it was kind of embarrassing. Can it be he pushed the wrong button?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys thanx for caring x
kc thanx i know im not going mad but your way of thinking is mine-i know he done it to spite me
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reader, morgan5885  +, writes (30 July 2009):
its a facebook add... it doesnt mean anything.. i add everyone i know no matter what. doesnt me he has a thing for you thats totally normal
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 July 2009):
 If you have nothing to say to him ad he really has nothing to say to you, I would honestly take him off and block him.
Either he wants to rub it in that he got married or he is one of those attention whores, who thinks the more people he knows on Facebook the more popular he is......
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): I am somewhat new to facebook as well and my first lesson is to not take things too seriously. I think some people just want a lot of friends. But he may have friended you because he was curious to see what you have been up to in the last 6 years. Like if you are married, have kids, etc. It may be nothing more than a curiosity. Facebook is a look into your life and what you are up to these days. I am finding that a lot of people just friend people they know or have known just because. No real purpose. It has been six years, so perhaps this is his way of just burying the hatchet, so to speak. I wouldn't read into it that much. Especially if he didn't send you a message or anything.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Sounds like he was being a complete jerk and wanting to rub your face in his new life! He must have wanted you to see that he was married and happy now with his new life, it sounds like you had a lucky escape from that idiot! I bet he has tried to add all of his ex's to show them how well he is doing!
Dont worry about it, he clearly is an awful person and not even worth thinking about for another second!
I hope this helps!
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