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writes:I have been single for 6 months now, but I havent got over my ex bf!I was realy in love with this guy and we were going to do sooo much together he offered me the world and believed it would all come true.We split in june because he said he didnt want a relationship!He is still in my life and wants to be my friend, but I dont know if i can do that, because i think alot more of him than just a friend.He has done some hurtful and shabby things to me but i suppose i forget them all with the love i have in my heart. It upsets me every time i hear from him or see him because i still have the feelings there.Anyway i have to have dealings with him in work because it is unavoidable and he lives near by so i see him often.he also texts me and tells me im still sexy, attractive etc and that he is always there if i need a friend or a hug etc.The thing i want to ask is... how can I ever get over him if he is still there in my heart, mind and eye?I am really confused and need tips on how to move on as i am not experienced when it comes to matters of the heart xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have cut all contact with my ex although i am still hurting over him.
He is often around still but i am now ignoring him until i can cope with him being around.
do you think this is the best approach?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thank u x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):
its impossible to be friends with someone when you clearly want more... and him texting you telling you you're sexy etc is very selfish on his part! tell him that the break up was down to him and he needs to keep his distance... i know it seems harsh but he clearly is looking at you as still his...
im sure theres other ways but i dont really think you can be friends with an x until you have really moved on, i know you were saying hes everywhere but that doesnt mean you need to be texting or making any effort to talk to each other... except to b civil... hm im quite pesimistic though sorry!
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