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writes: i dated this guy in my first year of uni and needless to say it wasn't the best choice i made being he gave me something,i got it sorted and then i broke up with him because he just wasnt that interested about us. been with my current bf a year and half now and we are very happy. i was out with my bf after we had finished work and both realised said ex was there. we went to sit with our friends then half an hour later went to the bar to grab a drink. my ex then comes up to me to say o hey didnt recognize you, you look great, and so different. im here with my gf i should introduce you to her, i replied thats lovely i really hope it works out for you. my current bf really not liking the whole situation my ex put his hand on my shoulder then left. me and my bf brushed it off, then in the mens toilets my ex goes up to bf and says i never gave your gf anything shes a liar and i resent her, don't belive what she tells you. my bf told him to leave, which he did very quickly. i dont fully understand what makes people so nasty,or why my ex did this i thought yeah be cool to be civil since we are at the same uni might as well be nice to eachother, so what caused him to upset my bf and lie about what kind of person i am?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (13 July 2011):
Hi there. He was just being nasty, perhaps he's jealous of your new boyfriend.
Maybe he's sour about your breaking up with him before.
If he gave you an STD (sexually transmitted disease), well why is he saying he didn't? Who really knows? For that matter, you probably never will know. Does it really matter?
Really, it's just water under the bridge now isn't it?
It's history.
There's no real harm done.
Don't worry so much about what other people think or say - it's unimportant in the grand scheme of things.
I'd say he's making a feeble attempt to get back at you for saying he gave you an STD, and that's about all.
His pride is hurt apparently.
Don't worry about it. He's not worth it.
His comments serve no real purpose, they change nothing.
Your boyfriend is far more likely to believe you over your ex any day. No doubt about it.
And there is absolutely no reason for it to change anything between you and your new boyfriend.
I suggest that you forget all about your ex, and just move forward and be happy with the new man in your life.
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